There is so much competition surrounding us that it’s really overwhelming being around someone who wants to be better than someone else. If we just focus on what’s importance, our self-esteem can remain stable because we discovered our self-worth. If you didn’t know You Are Valuable and you dont have to be like everyone else.
When I was a teenager my type of competition was in choreographing my dances. I wanted to be the best and be recognized as one of the best. I did achieve that but what this whole thing created was destroying my value, my self-esteem and in some cases caused depression. Is that how you want to end up?
As we grow older, we realize that these actions were going to affect my personal life. There is no self-control and we need to find that fast. This can be applied in the direct sales industry. There’s so much comparison, so much competition that if we stop and realize that everyone in direct sales are trying to achieve the same thing and that is to make money. Am I right?
If we don’t achieve out goals, we become discouraged. If we don’t see fast results, we’re not good enough. If nobody wants to join my team, then this business is not for me. This society has created a facade that we decided to believe in and it shouldn’t be that way. We are unique in our own way and when it comes to building a direct sales business it takes time, effort, dedication and determination.
We need to get rid of the microwave mentality and stop expecting things to happen in an instant. If you evaluate the top performers if any direct sales compant, their success happened in about 5 years max. Those who achieved their goals faster created habits that allowed them to make things happen. Meaning, there were no excuses.
Think about what’s making you feel the way you do. Why haven’t you achieved your goals? How can you get your brain out of the way so that you can live your best *confident* life? The key is figuring out what makes you feel bad about yourself and what you’re doing that’s not working and learn how to minimize those negative situations.
For example, evaluate your income producing activities. If something is working, don’t change it. Whatever is not working replace it with another activity. Also, a good way to maximize your daily activities is being surrounded by top leaders, by people who are actually doing what you want to do and achieve the level of success you want to reach.
Surround yourself with people that lift you up. Learn about your values and focus on what matters to you and how you want to be seen. Ask yourself these two questions:
- What is a quality that I want to be able to see in myself?
- Who do I admire as and why?
A technique I use a lot since I was a teenager was the use of a journal to record my thoughts, my goals and my dreams. When I choreographed every dance I wanted to perform in a school dance competition I jotted down the name of the song and visualize every step were going to make and record those in the journal. Direct sales is no different. In order for you to visualize where you’re headed, writing things down is a powerful activity that needs to be practiced daily. Be intentional. Be deeply specific so that you can have a clear idea of where you stand.
Taking ideas and putting them on paper can help you look at them at a different angle and helps you understand more what’s missing and fill that gap. Then focus on the steps that are needed to fill that gap.
Everyone goes through the same cycle of the ‘I’m not good enough’ issue bit you can make things happen if you focus on the right things. As direct sellers, we have powerful tools that our company offers us such as training available. Make a commitment to revise these training courses each week. I check them out every Tuesday with pen and paper on hand to take notes. Also, fill your mind with training that other people offer in social media. For example, I love watching YouTube videos that Directors from the company I’m with share and I take notes on those.
To feed my mind with knowledge and understanding of certain topics, I watch Dr. Caroline Leaf on how the mind works and how our thoughts affect every decision we make. Learning is life-long journey but you will feel so confident that no matter what others say, will not affect you if you don’t let it.